Know What You Want

Holding Hands is Good but Know What the Fuck You Want!

The other night, a friend was talking with me about the shit going on in his marriage. He was pretty much to the point where he didn't know what to do because he wanted to leave her but due to the fact they have kids, he wanted to at least try to work it out with her even though she was treating him wrong. He was even going on about how he didn't know how he ended up in a relationship where he was pretty much feeling like he was in anal hell.


Needless to say that, I pretty much sat there and let my friend pour his heart out to me. He had been pretty much telling me about the shit that she was doing to him. From everything that he was telling me plus the way that he was acting that pretty much told me that the shit was really fucking him up inside because he loved the woman, there was no question about that but he just didn't like the shit that she was putting him through and that was the big issue.


He was out there working his ass off while she stayed home and did nothing pretty much. I'm not going to go into their whole financial situation but the fact of the matter is that while he worked, she sat on her ass getting money and that's all I'm going to say about that issue. What I'm going to say is the lack of money wasn't a problem because they had what they needed, it was how the money was being spent and that another person was benefiting from it that shouldn't have been.


Like I said before, I'm not going to go too deep into that shit because that some personal shit but I wanted to give you an idea of the shit that we talked about and the whole idea about this shit that I'm putting out to you right now.


Anyway, the point that I was trying to bring up by the brief and unfinished telling of the conversation between my friend is that when you're getting into a relationship with somebody or at least getting serious with them, you need to be conscious of what you want when it comes to being with somebody my fellow pervs.


I think that one of the biggest mistakes that we make when we get into a committed relationship with somebody is that we tend to go in not knowing what we want. What I mean by this is that we don't take into consideration the type of mother fucking person that we want to be with.


I know it's hard to think about that shit when you're checking out the extreme asses of some of these chicks running around here because most of them look just too fucking good to resist but you have to think about what the fuck is going to happen after you commit and start laying that big sausage pizza to them. Being in a committed relationship goes beyond just seeing some hot chick and fucking them, you have to deal with each other besides fucking each other's brains out.


Relationships are about being with people who you want to be with, loving what you do about them, and accepting their flaws to say the least. It's not about getting somebody that you like and trying to change them like I have said many times before. That shit doesn't work and my friend fell into the same shit that I've seen mother fuckers fall into, they mean well but their effort is being wasted on somebody who's already grown.


It's like I've said many times before, you can't raise somebody that's already grown, you could either deal with them or not get with them in the beginning. You can't change who they are to fit what you want them to be, you can only accept them for who they are or choose not to be with them.


Another thing that I should add, my fellow pervs, is the fact that when you decide to go into a relationship that you should be honest with yourself about what you want like I said before. One of the biggest mistakes that we make is that we are not honest with ourselves about the type of person that we want in our lives. Most of the time we tend to go along with things at face value and don't pay attention to what we really want, that's why you see a lot of relationships tend to fail.


When you are getting into a relationship, it's like buying a car. You don't just look at how good the car looks and forget everything else. You check under the hood to see what's going on and you also consider how the car is going to work for you. Anybody who knows something about cars will tell you that you just don't go by looks. They would tell you that you've got to look under the hood, test drive it and do your homework about it before you buy it. That's the difference between having a car that you want opposed to ending up with a car that you're trying to unload on any sucker that you could find.


That same thing is true when it comes to relationships. I don't think that nobody would want to be in a relationship where they feel like they have drove off the lot with a lemon. They would rather have the type of relationship that they want and could deal with. The last thing that they would want to feel like is that they've been played.


Now, don't get me wrong blowing papa loads is good in a relationship but it's not the only thing about it that's good. There's a lot of other shit that goes into being together and if one or both of you are not ready for that shit then you shouldn't even think about being together. You should just mark the time that you fucked off as just that, a fuck.


If you don't want to end up in a situation like my friend, it would be best if you know what type of person you want, what type of relationship you want and find somebody that feels the same way that you do. Going after what you think you want only gets you into shit that you don't want to be in and that's a relationship where you find yourself trying to pull your fucking hair out because you end up becoming so annoyed with your mate.


Be honest to yourself first about what you want and look for that because you will find yourself more happier than if you didn't.


Plus, don't forget that there's no such thing as the perfect one, that's some bullshit because everybody's got some shit that you are just not going to agree with but you could at least deal with. No matter how good somebody is there's always going to be a part of them that you don't like and you've got to decide if you could deal with that shit or not. In other words, don't try to expect something out of somebody that's unrealistic and against their nature because you will end up wishing that you didn't.


If you're somebody who seems to be in and out of relationships like people change underwear, you might just want to think about what you are looking for before you decide to get your ass into a relationship. It's just something to think about my fellow pervs.


Well, I've got to go. Wrap that rascal if she's nasty, don't forget to pull out if she's not and Happy Fucking my fellow pervs.

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