Taking Whips and Chains to a Whole Other Level

Well with the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, it seems like more and more people are becoming fascinated with BDSM and fetishes. It seems like more people are trying out new things in sexuality looking to make their love life a lot more exciting. Porn has been doing it for years but with that book coming out, you see more and more things as far as that subject goes. I don't know if it's just a fad or if people actually get off from it.

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I had a conversation with a good friend in the business because I wanted to know a little more about it. I was curious (not that kind of curious, I'm strictly a pussy lover) about why it seems like so many people would try this stuff and I actually learned a few things and I thought being the horny mother fucker I am, I would share this with you so enjoy.

Now, some of you may know what BDSM and fetishes are, so you don't really need me to tell you what it's about but for those of you that wondered but was afraid to ask this is for you. So with out future ado, let's get on with this shit.

Let's start with what BDSM and fetishes mean:

  • BDSM is short for bondage, dominance, sadism, masochism. Now this is a variety of things dealing with a master/slave relationship. It's a fetish that could involve whips and chains or other things that inflict pain, disgrace, embarrassment or any other thing that we would consider to be a bad way to treat people and people get off from. (If you want to know about the terminology that's used Google it.)

  • Fetishes are pretty much something that gives you sexual arousal, such as a certain situation or physical article. Things like having sex in a public place, wearing or having your fuck partner wear a certain thing shit like that.

Now that we've got that shit out of the way, we can move on.

It's funny when you think about the things that people would love to do to get them off. I mean sure there are some things that just get us off. There are certain fantasies that people would love to have happen to them. Role playing is a good example of this.

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Have you ever wanted to fuck one of the high school cheerleaders inside your bedroom? Or how about fantasize about having your sexy big tits boss come up to you, want you to bend her over her desk, fuck her and come on her business suit? I know that you have wanted to try sex in different places or even do something out of the ordinary that would get you off. Many of us have that's why we actually find people who are willing to do those dirty little things that we fucking dream about.

It's like the whole thing about whips and chains. Some people get arousal from getting tied up and being made to have sex or even not have sex but see them have sex with somebody else. They get off from being put in a vulnerable position and not being able to do anything about it, just sit there and take it.

These things could range from very erotic to down right fucked up. Like I said before it doesn't have to be really about sex to get somebody off. It just has to be a situation or even a object. It's like you might just like being a bikini banger who loves fucking a chick in a bikini. You might just be into somebody wearing full body latex or leather.

It could include a whole range of things like fucking in places that you can get caught. Fucking the MILF next door or a sexy cougar could even be a fetish. Watching not just porn but certain types or porn could be a fetish. I guess it's just your view of things I guess.

Being black, I'm not too crazy about whips and chains myself but I say what ever floats your fucking boat. I don't knock anybody unless the shit pretty much goes to far then I'm like what the fuck? If it's your thing being cracked by a whip while being chained up and one of those balls in your mouth then have at it, I won't judge you.

Anyway, from what my friend tells me, actually BDSM is not really about having sex at all. It's actually about more of dominance/submissive relationship. Sure it's intimate but it's actually about both having a mutual respect and knowing what lines not to cross. It's not like you just walk in their and they just hit you or choke you. I'm sure they would if you like that but only if that's what you want.

You have to obey what they tell you no matter what it is. When you are dealing with a domme you are actually entrusting yourself to them. You are trusting them on having their way with you and taking you to certain points that you expect. Those points could range from erotic to fucking humiliating, so if you are not ready for that then this shit is not for you.

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But if you are into it then, I say go for it but be careful. Learn everything that you can about it before you jump into it because there's a lot that you need to know when doing something like this. This could be dangerous and should be done with somebody that knows what they are doing. That goes for dommes as well as submissives. There are a lot crazies out there so you have to be careful.

My friend told me about some mother fuckers that she has ran into that she just had to deny as clients because they have asked for some things that was just too bizarre that they go total outside of a domme/sub relationship. These are some weird things like cutting, amputation, defecation and shit like that. So if you are into that shit, you don't need a domme, you need a head doctor.

For those of you that are not into what I have listed and into the regular domme/submissive roles. Do not go to a fetish party because they are dangerous. My friend have told me about the horror stories that have come about from them. If you want to find a good domme look for a professional. They are more than likely to teach you about the BDSM culture.

Now, we move on to fetishes. As far as fetishes go you do have to be careful as well. Some fetishes you have to be careful with and know what you are doing. Some fetishes can be mild and some could be on the brink of danger such as choking and shit, so you have got to be careful. Certain things that you do require some caution so make sure you keep that in mind.

There are certain things that you have to fucking learn. I suggest that you go and pick up a book on the subject. I'm not sure if you could go to your local library about the subject, so make sure that you check out your local bookstore. Or better yet check out your local sex store. I'm sure that they could help you out with books that carry the subject.

I don't know much about fetishes but I do know that I do like certain things out of them. I can dig the latex and leather. I can dig a little bondage but it's only to a certain point. I'm not to heavily into it like some people but I do have to tell you that some of the things that they do, I think are pretty fucking sweet. So check them out and make sure that you are being careful about it when you do.

Well, I've got to go. Happy Fucking my fellow pervs.

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